
If you've never been to an Orthodox Christian worship service before, you're in for an incredible glimpse at what worship was like for early Christians. Yes, you read that right! The Church you read about in the Book of Acts; that's us! Because Christians were Messiahnized Jews, our worship relfects that of Second Temple worship, which was Liturgical in nature. In keeping the Tradition, our services are liturgical by nature, and intentionally incorperate activity on the part of both the clergy and the laity; in other words, we don't simply sit and observe the clergy; we actively participate in the services - this immersive experience can be a lot to take in and digest if you're not accustomed to this way of worship. Orthodox Christian worship is also unique in that it engages all fives senses during worship. Regardless of who you are and where you're coming from, we're thrilled to welcome you and hope you find yourself warmly welcomed and comfortable.
Before going any further we want you to know you're welcome to visit us just the way you are. Sure, we have a way of doing things, but we don't expect every visitor or inquirer to know everything or "get it right" the first time. We understand what it's like to be a fish out of water, as most of us have visited other Churches for various reasons (weddings, funerals, baptisms, etc). The best way to learn about who we are, what we believe, and what worship is like is to come and observe.
For your conveninence we've compiled "10 Things You Should Know" before visiting an Orthodox Church. If you don't want to read, check out our LIVESTREAM to see and hear the sights and sounds of our worship!
During the early part of the service, you may see people walking up to the front of the church, say a brief prayer in front of one of the icons (the standing icons in front of the altar), kissing it and lighting a candle, even though the service has already begun. In the Orthodox church the main service is called the Divine Liturgy (The work of the people) and is celebrated each Sunday and sometimes on weekdays. It is preceded by an hour and a half service called Matins (or Orthros). There is no break between these services, one begins as soon as the previous ends. Matins is comprised of readings from the book of Psalms, the Gospel, and has many hymns. It typically precedes the Divine Liturgy, though it can stand alone as a service in the church. Orthodox worshippers arrive at any point from the beginning of Matins up until the beginning of the Divine Liturgy. Though some come late to the Divine Liturgy, it’s not a good practice. Just as you wouldn’t show up to a movie fifteen minutes after it has already started.
FYI's and Other Helpful Things
When should you definitely stand?
Lighting Candles
Entering the Church (Late)
Crossing Those Legs?
In and Out
Leaving Before Dismissal
Blot that Lipstick!
Venerating Icons
Talking During Church
Kiss (Don’t Shake) the Priest’s or Bishop’s Hand
Sunday Dress
Children: Only young children (under 10) should wear shorts to church — and then only dress shorts. Athletic shorts, cut-offs, and spandex shorts are never appropriate church wear (for children or adults!). Shoes or sandals should be clean and tied. No one should wear T-shirts with any kind of writing on them (“This Bud’s for You!” is definitely out).
Women: Dresses should be modest. No tank tops or dresses with only straps at the shoulders, no short skirts (mini-skirts), and no skin-tight dresses. Dresses should have backs and not be cut low in the front. If women wear pants to church, they should be dress pants (not jeans, leggings, etc.). Shorts of any type are not appropriate for church.
Men: Men should also dress modestly. While coat and tie are not mandatory, shirts should have collars and be buttoned to the collar (the actual collar button may be left undone, but two or three buttons undone is inappropriate). Slacks should be cleaned and pressed. Jeans (of any color) are usually too casual for church, especially ones with patches or holes. Again, shorts are not appropriate church wear. If you’re going somewhere after church where you need to dress casually, bring a change of clothing with you and change after coffee hour. Remember, use your best judgment and good taste when dressing for church. After all, you don’t go to be seen by everyone else — you go to meet and worship God.
Pew Blocking
To Cross or Not To Cross
To Cross: When you hear one of the variations of the phrase, “Father, Son, and Holy Spirit”; at the beginning and end of the liturgical service or your private prayers; entering or exiting the church, or when passing in front of the Holy Altar; before venerating in icon, the cross, or Gospel book.
Not to Cross: At the chalice before or after taking Communion (you might hit the chalice with your hand); when the priest or bishop blesses saying, “Peace be to all” — bow slightly and receive the blessing; when receiving a blessing from a bishop or a priest (kissing the right hand of the bishop or priest is appropriate, but not making the sign of the cross).
Snacks for Children
- Take your children to light candles and venerate the icons at the beginning of service. Be sure to say a prayer with each candle and make your cross. Upon veneration of the icons, teach your children to pay attention to the icons on the analoy/tetrapod - these icons typically indicate the feast.
- Don’t hide in the back - stand in the front where children can see what’s taking place during the services. Don’t be afraid to challenge your children to stand as much as they're able to during the services and face forward - this is where all the action is happening!
- Engage your children; ensure they're making their cross at the appropriate times, bowing at the appropriate times, and reciting appropriate prayers when they're said/sung. These prayers should be said at home to help them learn and be able to participate at Church.
- Challenge your children to pay attention to the Epistle/Gospel/Sermon, and quiz them.
- Educate your children during services. Explain the meaning of the censer, processions, etc. And if you don't know, ask your priest! It's never too late to learn!
- Keep talking and bathroom breaks to a minimum.
- Do not hang out in the Narthex or Sunday School Rooms; the Narthex is technically part of the Church, and should not be treated as a casual space. Hanging out in the nursry and sunday school rooms for extended periods of time is inappropriate; our little ones should be in the appropriate space and aware of what is going on.
- Teach your children that the Church is where God dwells; it is a very special and holy place where good behavior is not only suggested, but required.
- Our little ones have rules at school and standards/expectations to abide by. Gods house is no different. It's never too late to set the bar, and put a reasonable level of age-appropriate expectation on your little ones.
- Tablets, arts/crafts, toys, disruptive play (crawling, walking around, talking, constant in & out, etc) and other things that could be distracting to others are strongly discouraged. Please be mindful of the others who desire a calm, peaceful worship.
- Remember, we're all doing our best! We love hearing the occasional rustle and bustle of the little ones - it means the Church is alive and well! We're here to encourage and support you! If you need help with your little ones, let us know how we can support you. We’re family! We’re here to help!
Handling the Holy Bread
A Final Thought
When you enter a Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church service or event, you will be entering an area where photography, video and audio recording, or live streaming may occur.
Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church takes photographs and/or makes audio and/or video recordings of members involved in church related activities. Staff and/or participants may use such photographs or video records to recall activities or participants. In addition, such photographs and audio/visual recordings may be used in Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church publication and marketing materials to let others know of our ministries, and/or streaming and website hosting of Divine Services.
By entering the Church/event premises, you consent to photography, audio recording, video recording and its/their release, publication, exhibition, or reproduction to be used for live streaming, promotional purposes, inclusion on web sites, and/or any other purpose by Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church. You release Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church, its clergy, employees, laity, and each and all persons involved from any liability connected with the taking, recording, digitizing, and/or publication of photographs, computer images, video and/or sound recordings.
By entering the Divine Services/event premises, you waive all rights you may have to any claims for payment or royalties in connection with any exhibition, streaming, webcasting, or other publication of these materials, regardless of the purpose. You also waive any right to inspect or approve any photo, video, or audio recording taken by Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church or the person or entity designated to do so by Saint John the Baptist Orthodox Church. If at anytime you find a photo or video on our website or YouTube channel that you prefer to have removed for privacy or safety reasons, please contact us @ saintjohnswarren@gmail.com
If you prefer not to be recognized on camera, the back rows inside the Church are not within viewing distance of a camera and Communion will typically be only on a wide-shot where it will be difficult to recognize congregants.
You have been fully informed of your consent, waiver of liability, and release before entering the Divine Services/event.